Parental Controls: Windows Family Safety and iPhone Screen Time

A new laptop or phone for your kid is a good time to set up parental controls. This guide covers Microsoft Family Safety on Windows, and Screen Time on an iPhone or iPad, including screen time limits, content filters, and activity reports.

What parental controls actually do

Set it up once, and it just runs in the background.

Screen time limits — Daily limits, by device or by app, so devices turn off on their own.

Content filters — Block age-inappropriate sites and content automatically.

Activity reports — See what they’re doing, without checking their device by hand.

How to set up parental controls, step by step

Windows

WinWindows: Microsoft Family Safety

Create a family group with your account and your child’s, at family.microsoft.com or in the Family Safety app.

WHAT TO DOYour child needs their own Microsoft account, not a local account, or limits can’t be enforced.

Parental controls: Windows: Microsoft Family Safety

iPhone & iPad

iOSiPhone and iPad: Screen Time

Set up Family Sharing, with your child on their own Child Account, not a shared one.

WHAT TO DOFrom your device: Settings, Family, your child’s name, Screen Time.

iPhone and iPad: Screen Time

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What you can set on Windows

Screen time, by day or by device — Set limits for each day of the week, and each device they use
Content filters — Block specific sites, and set a maximum age rating for content
Weekly activity reports — See the sites and apps they used, without opening their device

What you can set on iPhone

App limits and Downtime — A daily limit per app, and a scheduled device-free time, like bedtime
Content and Privacy Restrictions — Block mature content, app downloads, and certain settings changes
Communication Limits — Choose who they can call, message, or face-time, and when

Recap: parental controls

Screen time limits, content filters, and activity reports, all in one place
Windows: Microsoft Family Safety, child needs their own Microsoft account
iPhone or iPad: Family Sharing, with a Child Account
Set app limits, Downtime, and who they can communicate with
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Printable quick guide

Set Up Parental Controls (1-page quick guide PDF)

Frequently asked questions

What do I need to set up Microsoft Family Safety?

A family group with at least one parent/organizer and one child, each with their own Microsoft account. Your child needs their own Microsoft account rather than a local account, or Windows can’t reliably enforce their screen time and content limits.

What can I control with Microsoft Family Safety?

Screen time limits by day, device, or app; content filters that block specific websites and set a maximum age rating for content; and weekly activity reports showing the sites and apps your child used.

How do I set up Screen Time for my child’s iPhone or iPad?

Set up Family Sharing with your child on their own Child Account, not a shared account. Then on your own device, go to Settings, Family, tap your child’s name, then Screen Time, and follow the on-screen instructions.

What can I control with Screen Time on iPhone or iPad?

App limits (a daily time limit per app), Downtime (a scheduled device-free period, like bedtime), Content and Privacy Restrictions (blocking mature content, app downloads, and certain settings changes), and Communication Limits (who they can call, message, or FaceTime, and when).

On Windows, your child needs their own Microsoft account, not a local account, or screen time and content limits can’t be reliably enforced. On iPhone or iPad, they need their own Child Account within Family Sharing, not a shared account.